Instead of blame-shifting?
Accusing?
Manipulating?
Criticizing?
Instead of waiting for someone else to speak up?
Take the lead?
Give you permission?
Go first?
Instead of making excuses?
Making assumptions?
Making the mistake of feeling busy while not being effective?
Making it someone else’s fault?
Instead of hiding what you really believe?
Half-truthing yourself to death?
Wondering what it might have been like if you did?
Waiting for some external circumstance to motivate you to do so?
Instead of half-assing it?
Avoiding it?
Resenting it?
Starting but never finishing it?
Instead of projecting your fears, frustrations, and failures onto us?
Wouldn’t that be radically responsible?
